Today is the 1 year anniversay of my Mother's passing. I don't miss my Mother. I don't need to grieve her passing. What I need to grieve is all those things I didn't get in my childhood that I didn't get and can't get back. I can't fill that void in my life no matter how hard I try. No one can replace what was lost.

Moving on, things with my sister haven't changed. Because this is a holiday week, my lawyer says we just have to wait this one out. We are waiting to either get the appraisal or get the appraisers name from the B*tch's lawyer. If we don't have anything by Monday, I'll meet with my lawyer and decide what the next step is.
I guess I really have 2 choices: pay for an appraisal to be done myself (and hope and I can get the money back) or take her to court. I would rather avoid court but I think we will end up there, which doesn't make sense.
If we do the appraisal, they could suddenly turn up theirs and then I will be stuck paying for the one we do. But, it would be better then ending up in court. All I know is, if and when we get the appraisal report, they will be given a deadline to reply.