Hi all. I thought it was time to give an update since I do have some information to tell.

First of all I received a nice surprise at work yesterday. I received a raised, effective 10/1. My boss actually sent me a note and said we could talk about it if I wanted. But he said, that I had been doing good work on both the system I normally work on and the one I get assigned to a lot. The managers of the other system have made a point of telling our Director that I am doing a good job. My boss says this will help in the effort to help get me promoted which is his goal.

Now onto the more "ugly" subject in my life. My sister.
They have finally gotten the appraisal done and are waiting for the paper work. This could take a few days or over a week to get. But it is done. Depending on what the numbers come back as, depends on whether I accept the number or not. I've had enough of waiting and my sister isn't going to get away with doing things the easy way. I'm done playing nice. I've told my attorney that from now on we give them deadlines. I told him that my mental well being is being affected because of this. My attorney and I will need to discuss what will happen if they don't meet those deadline and what will happen if by chance my sister really can't get a loan. All I know, is I won't take payments and I'm not waiting another year to see if she can afford to do it then.
It has been 9 months since I started this process and I don't want it to drag out any longer than it has to.
I'm hoping that the appraisal comes in early next week and we can make some type of decision by the end of the week.
All I know is when my sister gets the appraisal and even before we approve or disapprove of the amount, she should try to get pre-approved for a loan of half the amount, just to see what will happen. She has always says that her credit won't allow her to do this and she can't afford it but, she never knew what the amount was.

That's about all for now. More to come as I find out.