My lawyer called yesterday at about 5:30 pm. He thought he would make my weekend just a little nicer.
The bitch's lawyer called him yesterday to let him know that she had a commitment from the Credit Union for the money. I don't know what type of loan she has taken out and I don't really care as long as I get the amount that we proposed to them since they never came back to say they did not agree with it. We have asked for proof of the committment, as her own lawyer has.
It seems that her lawyer has finally wised up with her and told her that if she didn't get moving and do something, she would have to find a new lawyer. I have to admit, I'm surprised that she didn't do this way before this time. At least her lawyer has finally seen her for what/who she is.
We are hoping to hear something by the end of the week but, I'm actually hoping that we hear something sooner. She must have a written committment on the loan/mortgage that all she really needs to do is get her ass to the lawyers office so they can make a copy. We also would like to see if we can find out a time frame as to when all the different steps will happen. So, we just may be able to avoid court after all. It will be interesting to see if she actually has taken out the loan for the amount that we requested. I will not walk out of the "closing" with a check for less then the price that we offerec.
I will keep you posted on what is happening...
Saturday, April 24, 2004
Tuesday, April 20, 2004
Deadline - come and gone
As most of you could have guessed, the deadline for my sister to contact us with either proof of having financing or an agreement to sell the house has passed without a word. My lawyer faxed a letter to her lawyer yesterday as a reminder but has yet to receive a response to that.
My lawyer recommended a lawyer to handle the litigation, who happens to be in Bloomfield but he is on vacation this week. I left a message. This gives the bitch an extra week but she doesn't know it. I know it won't make a difference but it gives her lawyer time to make up some excuse as to why they didn't make the deadline and I can't wait for to see what she comes up with.
Needless to say I'm really pissed right now. We all know I don't do waiting well and that is all I can do at the moment unless my sisters lawyer, by some miracle, happens to get in touch with my lawyer in the next couple of days.
It just seems really stupid to me that any lawyer would allow a client to let something go to court when there are better options. I know my "sister" is stubborn, controlling and manipulating but, it is not in her best interest to let this go to court. If the lawyer can't handle my "sister" then maybe she should reconsider handling the case.
Oh well...me and my anger are going to have something to eat.
My lawyer recommended a lawyer to handle the litigation, who happens to be in Bloomfield but he is on vacation this week. I left a message. This gives the bitch an extra week but she doesn't know it. I know it won't make a difference but it gives her lawyer time to make up some excuse as to why they didn't make the deadline and I can't wait for to see what she comes up with.
Needless to say I'm really pissed right now. We all know I don't do waiting well and that is all I can do at the moment unless my sisters lawyer, by some miracle, happens to get in touch with my lawyer in the next couple of days.
It just seems really stupid to me that any lawyer would allow a client to let something go to court when there are better options. I know my "sister" is stubborn, controlling and manipulating but, it is not in her best interest to let this go to court. If the lawyer can't handle my "sister" then maybe she should reconsider handling the case.
Oh well...me and my anger are going to have something to eat.
Sunday, April 11, 2004
Just an Update
It's been awhile since I've provided an update to everything going on in my life. So, I thought it was time.
The Continuing Saga...
The Bitch has one more week to either show proof that she has financing or sign an agreement to sell the house. If either of those 2 things don't happen, it's time to start the court process. Something that I'm not going to be very happy about doing at all. I know that they will wait until the last minute to contact us with any information that they have - that is the way that they do things. I am also sure that they will try to feed us a line of bull shit. The Bitch's lawyer has already done that before. I don't fall for it. Even though I haven't had contact with my "sister" for a long time, I know how she is and her lawyer can't play these games with me. So, as the week drags on, the stress is just going to build until I hear something, which doesn't seem promising to me.
For those of you who know that my shrink and I tried to decrease my Seroquel:
Things haven't been going that well. My urges have increased, I have been more self critical and my reactions to different situations happen faster then I can use my cognitive skills to get out of them. Once I fall into the negative spot, it is that much harder for me to get out of those spots.
Even though I have been having a hard time, I have been against increasing my Seroquel back to the regular dose. I want off the med at some point and if we can't decrease it just a little, then how will I ever get off it.
Well, after much discussion with my backup therapist and with the group, and the struggle inside, I talked with my shrink and agreed to go back to my regular dose.
There is a new med, Abilify that we will talk about switching to the next time I see him. I'm leary about switching because of the reaction I had with Geodon. But, this new med is once a day, and can have the added benefit of being able to lose weight.
With today being Easter, I haven't decided yet what I'm going to do. I have places I can go, I'm just not sure I want to go anywhere. I know that sitting home is not the best thing for me but is being around a bunch of people something I'm up to? I don't know and I won't really know unless I try it. Its been awhile since I've been out to Mom and Dad's and it would be nice to see them but the drive is long and I seem to get tired easier these days. There are things I can do around the house to keep myself busy. I will decide something this morning what I'm actually going to do.
Things with Robert and I are going okay. We had a few bumps in the road but those have been cleared up. It doesn't help that he is working 12 hour shifts, 6 days a week. It doesn't give us much time together. When he gets off work, he sleeps all day until it is time for him to go to work.
We are still working on trying to find him a different job. He doesn't mind working third shift, first shift is okay but, 2nd shift is his last choice.
The Continuing Saga...
The Bitch has one more week to either show proof that she has financing or sign an agreement to sell the house. If either of those 2 things don't happen, it's time to start the court process. Something that I'm not going to be very happy about doing at all. I know that they will wait until the last minute to contact us with any information that they have - that is the way that they do things. I am also sure that they will try to feed us a line of bull shit. The Bitch's lawyer has already done that before. I don't fall for it. Even though I haven't had contact with my "sister" for a long time, I know how she is and her lawyer can't play these games with me. So, as the week drags on, the stress is just going to build until I hear something, which doesn't seem promising to me.
For those of you who know that my shrink and I tried to decrease my Seroquel:
Things haven't been going that well. My urges have increased, I have been more self critical and my reactions to different situations happen faster then I can use my cognitive skills to get out of them. Once I fall into the negative spot, it is that much harder for me to get out of those spots.
Even though I have been having a hard time, I have been against increasing my Seroquel back to the regular dose. I want off the med at some point and if we can't decrease it just a little, then how will I ever get off it.
Well, after much discussion with my backup therapist and with the group, and the struggle inside, I talked with my shrink and agreed to go back to my regular dose.
There is a new med, Abilify that we will talk about switching to the next time I see him. I'm leary about switching because of the reaction I had with Geodon. But, this new med is once a day, and can have the added benefit of being able to lose weight.
With today being Easter, I haven't decided yet what I'm going to do. I have places I can go, I'm just not sure I want to go anywhere. I know that sitting home is not the best thing for me but is being around a bunch of people something I'm up to? I don't know and I won't really know unless I try it. Its been awhile since I've been out to Mom and Dad's and it would be nice to see them but the drive is long and I seem to get tired easier these days. There are things I can do around the house to keep myself busy. I will decide something this morning what I'm actually going to do.
Things with Robert and I are going okay. We had a few bumps in the road but those have been cleared up. It doesn't help that he is working 12 hour shifts, 6 days a week. It doesn't give us much time together. When he gets off work, he sleeps all day until it is time for him to go to work.
We are still working on trying to find him a different job. He doesn't mind working third shift, first shift is okay but, 2nd shift is his last choice.
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